Single – Another Valentine’s Day?

Another Valentine’s Day and no one special?

Don’t give up hope –

There is one who found her perfect mate.  Here’s a bit of her dating advise.

Yes, Miss Piggy found her perfect Kermie.



What should a woman do until her true love comes along?

Circulate, circulate, circulate!

What should a woman do if a man stands her up on a date?

If the man is genuinely apologetic, I would let him off with a  large bunch of flowers an expensive present and a lavish makeup dinner.  On the other hand, if he treats it as an offhand manner, he is obviously the kind of person who is not going to knock himself out for you, and you should do it for him.

What do you do if a man you like, and who likes you, still wants to see other women?

Although, this is by definition a somewhat emotional matter, you should approach it in a calm, reasonable, mature way.  What I would do is calmly, reasonably, and maturely explain to him that if he values his life, he should change his behavior.

Well, it worked for her, but there is another way.

Seek advise, pray and wait –  

A thoughtful gentleman shared with me the following advise.  For me, it is preferred.

On His Plan for Your Mate

“Everyone longs to give himself completely to someone:  to have a deep soul relationship with another; to be loved thoroughly and exclusively.  But, God to a Christian says, no, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled and content with being loved by Me, alone.  With giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me.  To having an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me, alone.  Discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I plan for you.

You will never be united with another until you are united with Me, really united with another, exclusive of anyone or anything else, exclusive of any other desires and longings.  I want you to stop planning, stop wishing, and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing… one that you cannot imagine.

I want you to have the best, please allow Me to bring it to you.  Just keep watching Me – expecting the greatest things.  Keep experiencing the satisfaction that I Am.  And keep listening and learning the things I tell you.

You just wait, that’s all…wait.  Don’t be anxious, don’t worry, don’t look around at the things that others have gotten or I have given them.  Don’t look at the things you think you want.  Just keep on looking off and away to Me or you will miss what I want to show you.  And then, when you are ready, I’ll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than anything you would dream of.

You see, until you are ready and until the one I have for you is ready, and I Am working even at this moment, to have both of you ready at the same time.  Until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life I prepare for you, you won’t be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me.  And this is perfect love.  And, dear one I want you to have the most wonderful love.

I want to see in you, in the flesh a picture of your relationship with Me.  And I want you to enjoy materially, the everlasting union and beauty and perfection and love that I offer you with Myself.  I know that I love you utterly.  I Am El Shaddai-most loving Father, God Almighty.  Believe it and be satisfied and I will satisfy you.”

Author unknown

Regarding Miss Piggy’s advise – she’s moved on from the nicest guy in Hollywood to the second nicest guy, Josh Groban.

My advise is pray, wait and watch what the Lord does –

In the meantime, live your life.  Gift yourself with the everlasting, perfect love and union only God Almighty can offer through a relationship in Christ.  He will satisfy you.

Happy Valentine’s Day!  

About bpfshg

I am a widow/single mom excited about finding new adventure, even if it stretches my abilities. Daily, I am challenged by the wisdom of the Bible, Oswald Chambers’ devotionals and the “still small voice” of the Lord as He meets with me every morning. I have enjoyed lots of fun things with my kids and friends... ice fishing, scuba diving, traveling, sleeping in the rain forest with little critters, camping (even below zero weather), hiking, biking (250 mi. ride, the Royal Gorge-lovely), walking a tight rope (25 ft.), built/slept in a quinzhee. Yes, scouting can stretch one beyond belief when you're a mom. I enjoy outdoor activities, cycling and just recently, standup paddle boarding (it doesn’t hurt when you fall). I love Colorado, great place to live! I am discovering how much I love “words”… His Words. They are written on my heart and constantly on my mind. With much prayer and a humble heart, may the words I write be pleasing to Him. And He said unto them, Go into all the world and preach and publish openly the good news (the Gospel) to every creature. Mark 16:15
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